Good Morning Bloggers,
I have something on my mind and heart that I would like to speak about. I may be a little long but please bare with me.
I am very concerned with the issues of violence that are plaguing our youth in the last few months, especially what is hitting the areas in Chicago. I am so torn that I almost feel hopeless.
This is something that I have spoken about in depth with a male friend of mine. He seems to think that the generation of children between the age of 16 and 19 are a lost cause so we need to focus on the younger children. He termed it as generational population control. I agree with this to a point but I still have hope. I believe that as adults we really need to do something to take back our youth. We are losing them to a society that has given up on them, school systems that have failed them and adults who have thrown them away.
I don’t think that I have all the answers, but I do have some thoughts. It is quite possible that this population of children may become obsolete but we have to try.
Here are some of my thoughts on this:
· We need our men to step up and become leaders instead of followers. We need them to show our younger men that life is worth living. I am not just talking about biological fathers. Any “man” can fill in those gaps. Our children no longer fear death.
· We must tell our children the truth about life. Let them know that things are not always going to be perfect but you must make the best of what you have and honor what others have.
· Let them know that money doesn’t buy happiness only things and how you get those things determines your worth in society. If you chose to gain from others misfortune, you will never have pride or wealth in other aspects of your life.
· This is number one; honor the wisdom and knowledge of those before you.
· Parents, family and friends we have to listen to our children and be there for them. I know it can be challenging at times but we must remain courageous.
· We must teach our children that it is ok to have conflicts with others as long as we constructively address the issues. We are never going to all agree but we have to learn to be able to disagree and move on to the next day. Have beef with someone and wanting to take someone out only aids to the problems, it doesn’t solve them. It has effects that not only reach those involved but many families and entire communities.
· We must teach our girls to be young ladies and our boys to be gentlemen and have respect for others’ as well as themselves.
Please assist me in trying to reach as many of our youth as possible. We want a generation that we are able to say that they were loss but were found again. If we don’t reach back and pick up where others’ left off, our society will definitely be doomed.
Please talk to a child today.
Much Love
Chanel
Real Life Real Talk Real Women
I have something on my mind and heart that I would like to speak about. I may be a little long but please bare with me.
I am very concerned with the issues of violence that are plaguing our youth in the last few months, especially what is hitting the areas in Chicago. I am so torn that I almost feel hopeless.
This is something that I have spoken about in depth with a male friend of mine. He seems to think that the generation of children between the age of 16 and 19 are a lost cause so we need to focus on the younger children. He termed it as generational population control. I agree with this to a point but I still have hope. I believe that as adults we really need to do something to take back our youth. We are losing them to a society that has given up on them, school systems that have failed them and adults who have thrown them away.
I don’t think that I have all the answers, but I do have some thoughts. It is quite possible that this population of children may become obsolete but we have to try.
Here are some of my thoughts on this:
· We need our men to step up and become leaders instead of followers. We need them to show our younger men that life is worth living. I am not just talking about biological fathers. Any “man” can fill in those gaps. Our children no longer fear death.
· We must tell our children the truth about life. Let them know that things are not always going to be perfect but you must make the best of what you have and honor what others have.
· Let them know that money doesn’t buy happiness only things and how you get those things determines your worth in society. If you chose to gain from others misfortune, you will never have pride or wealth in other aspects of your life.
· This is number one; honor the wisdom and knowledge of those before you.
· Parents, family and friends we have to listen to our children and be there for them. I know it can be challenging at times but we must remain courageous.
· We must teach our children that it is ok to have conflicts with others as long as we constructively address the issues. We are never going to all agree but we have to learn to be able to disagree and move on to the next day. Have beef with someone and wanting to take someone out only aids to the problems, it doesn’t solve them. It has effects that not only reach those involved but many families and entire communities.
· We must teach our girls to be young ladies and our boys to be gentlemen and have respect for others’ as well as themselves.
Please assist me in trying to reach as many of our youth as possible. We want a generation that we are able to say that they were loss but were found again. If we don’t reach back and pick up where others’ left off, our society will definitely be doomed.
Please talk to a child today.
Much Love
Chanel
Real Life Real Talk Real Women
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Chanel, I feel and share your heavy heart. I do think that everyone can play a part in turning this around. I think sometimes it seems so overwhelming that we think what can we do but I believe you are right in that if we just each take the time to talk to a child, become a big brother or sister, volunteer or become a mentor. There are so many things that we can do as a people to save our kids. You have pricked my heart and I am now going to do my part because saving at least one child is becoming a part of the solution! Awesome post!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks Anonymous. I try to do what I can but most of the kids involved in mentoring programs are not the trouble. We need to reach out to those on the street. I don't have the answer. I do spend time talking to kids I see going that way but do you think it is possible to reach those that have already started down that path? Stay prayful and if we can reach one that will be a blessing.
ReplyDeleteWell sometimes the reason why those that are involved in mentor programs aren't the ones that are the problem is because the mentor program saved them. And yes I do believe that children that might have alredy started down the wrong path can be changed and turned around. I believe that with God anything and everything is possible but like you have said we each have to do our part, even if we think it's small. We are all a part of this huge puzzle so we all have a part to play in the solution. Keep doing what you do Chanel!!
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