Ok, I have just had another birthday and I am feeling a bit more fierce than last year. My one dilemma is that I can’t find a guy to spend free time with.
Can someone answer me how is this possible in a city full of millions of people? Now I have guys in my life that are cool and I can hang out with but they are really unavailable to me. When I say this I mean that they come with a cost if things were moved in another direction pass the friend zone. They are either married, in situations, not mature enough, not looking for commitments and the biggest of all EMOTIONAL UNAVAILABLE.
What is a heterosexual woman to do? Now I don’t need a man, but dang I sure would like to have one around to provide that occasional ego boost and companionship for sure.
If it is true that you draw to you what you are…what does that mean for me? Or am I attracting these type of guys because unconsciously I really like being single? In all my heart of hearts I believe that I am ready to be in a relationship again but am I sending off other signals unconsciously. I meet more guys than women to befriend and yet I am only seen as the cool chick to hang out with.
What do you guys think? Provide some good feedback on this one. How can a women have many "good guys" in her life and none be available to her.
Chanel,
Real Life, Real Talk, Real Women
Monday, June 13, 2011
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