Relationship Restoration

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Happy Monday!!! I guess I do lots of thinking about life in general. My mind is always searching and thinking about all aspects of life. Most recently I have been thinking about life after the age of 35. When you are in your twenties everything seems possible as if you can conquer the world. I think that when you get into your thirties you start to become very realistic about life and the people in yours.

You start to see that some people and circumstances need and should become obsolete. You start to see that not everyone and everything was meant to be in your life for a lifetime. In reflecting on all these things I began to think how you can restore those things that should have remained a constant in your life. The things that I think about include but are not limited to like God, family, real friends, real loves and real people. So many times over the years people have crossed my path that I feel have been genuine human beings that truly have my best interest at heart. At the same time, just as many I have come across that meant nothing to me except to provide self-gratification for themselves. Now what can I do to regenerate those good relationships while discarding the bad?

1. Take care of me and my needs. Anyone that has your best interests at heart care about your needs more than their own.

2. Love me more. No one loves me more than me. If anyone seems to, be careful because there could be potential for a dangerous situation.

3. Treat others the way I would like them to treat me. Don’t seek out companionship because it is convenient. No one wants to be a just because you had nothing better to do fix.

4. Let others know that you appreciate them. I try and do it as often as I can.

5. I must be open to nontraditional circumstances. You could find the ultimate relationship in the most uncommon setting.


Much Love

Chanel

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