Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Hobo’s Question of the Day

Hobo is asking the question of is there really such a thing as “happily ever after” in relationship to marriage and has the concept of a monogamous relationship gone away with the belief that the world is flat.

I ask this question because despite my extreme efforts not to discuss this topic; I found myself at work “listening” to a co-worker explain to me the concept of men cheating and the world of athletes. He tried to convince me that men are biologically conditioned to cheat and that it is very naive of any one married to an athlete to believe that her husband or significant other will not cheat.

If his theory is true I wonder why does anyone commit to monogamous relationships and commit to the ultimate commitment of marriage anymore. Hobo asks this question because I happen to be an undercover romantic (cleverly disguised as a skeptic) and I would like to believe that on the day I say “I do”; that person is also giving the ultimate commitment.

So, Hobo is asking am I naïve to believe that two people can commit to one another or does one have to accept the idea that their significant other is incapable of respecting their relationship?

Looking for answers,

Hobo Bag.

Real life, Real talk, Real women.

2 comments:

  1. You're not naive. Cheating is a CHOICE!

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  2. I agree with Anonymous...we are human beings. We make choices whether or not to step out in relationships. God has given us free will and we chose the direction in what path we take.

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