RENEWING THE OLD

Here I go thinking again ladies. Sometimes I know that I think too much. The thought on my mind today has to deal with renewing old things. Specifically, I am speaking about relationships. Those can come in different forms. They range from platonic friends to passion filled lovers.

Have you ever been involved with someone that made you feel like a good person and that you deserved good things? Now we know people become obsolete from our lives for one reason or another. But have you ever been in a relationship that ended for no uncertain reason. It ended because possibly; you both were at a different stage in your life at the time. It had nothing to do with someone cheating, lying or just being a plain jerk, but that the time was not right for anything more than just a friendship.

Then time passes, we get older and become more settled in life but that person never leaves our heart and mind. You catch yourself here and there thinking of them and wondering how they are doing. Do you think that if that person came back in your life would it be a relationship worth pursing if both parties where willing? What has happened in that time that allows you to believe it could be different this time?

I know as women we tend to gravitate to the familiar just because we seem to already know what we are getting, but is this the way it should be. Do we pursue a relationship because it is familiar or do we pursue because of an actual connection to the other person?

So if you had an opportunity to reconnect with someone that you genuinely liked as a person, do you think it would be worthwhile? Or would that be taking a step back.

Let me know you thoughts on renewing the old? Is there someone that has left an impression on your being that you would consider spending time with again?

Much Love

Chanel

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