Wednesday, August 12, 2009

Enough!!!!

When do we as women draw that line, the invisible line of no more nonsense? The crap we consistently take from the ones we call “significant” others in our lives?

The ones we call friends, boyfriend, husbands, baby daddy, and other choice words etc.
Sometimes we get trapped in abusive situations and think it is normal because it has originated its self as a daily part of our lives.

Example: - we get ourselves involved in situations where we are with someone that is clearly not there for us. They do not take you out; they never have a kind word and do not give a damn if you are alive or dead.

We allow these people in our lives and they make our lives miserable. They change us into monsters of suspicion; we become detectives of blatant lies, cheats and mistrusting souls. We go through undergarments and become sniff dogs, degrading ourselves because of things we find out, things that make us not able to trust our mates.

We lose the beautiful person we are and become transformed into these things that we ourselves do not understand or know.

We become liars to others and worse to ourselves because they have physically, emotionally and spiritually hurt us and we now use the excuse to try and gather ourselves together.

At what point do you say enough?

We learn to make all sorts of excuses to allow them to have the best of us.

Ladies we need to say ENOUGH, now we have all sorts of support systems out there that will help us do better for ourselves.

First we have to want the help, we have to say ENOUGH is ENOUGH and regain the beautiful person that lies with in us.

Only you can change your path to REGAIN you, by saying ENOUGH....!!!!


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