I was listening to a group of my friends debate about the men of today. One person asked, what happen to them? Where are the guys like our dads? Where are the men that call you to just say something nice? That pulls the chair out for you when you need to sit? That compliments you even when you know you are not at your best; where did they go?
"They died in the 60’s", shouted another friend. The courteous, respectful responsible men are extinct. Then my question is to us beautiful ladies...what and who caused this?
Did we cause this? Did we give them the slightest inclination that we do not want to be treated like ladies? Who told them we are independent of these beautiful gestures?
Let‘s think about this, do these great qualities exist, or are they extinct? Ladies, do you ever wonder if our actions may have caused them to think this way? Thanks to ladies like us, who are out there to say, they exist and yes we are independent, but not of good gestures from our mates, friends etc....
DON’T SETTLE, DON’T GIVE UP…..they do exist!
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Tuesday, August 25, 2009
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I wonder if they do exist...at least in the younger generations. I don't think today's young men really get to learn by example---they so rarely see older gentlemen with these manners. And it seems that so many of our young ladies and young men have less and less respect for themselves and for others. I do hope that you are right and that they are out there!!
ReplyDeleteMadeline, they do exist. I know it is hard to see it most time but they are there. I have had the pleasure of having some special men in my life that have helped me to realize that Gentle men are still around.
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