Monday, May 24, 2010

Getting your Ish in order

We as women go around each day carrying the weight of others on our shoulders; whether it’s our children, our men, or jobs, friends or acquaintances. We are natural nurturers, even if we don’t think so. Life begins with us, so why not. As I reflect on my situation and circumstances, I realize that I have tried to be way too much to a whole lot of people who did not deserve that from me.

When would I get my chance to be the one who got picked up when I had fallen? When will I be the person who gets told it is going to be alright when life has thrown me a curve? Then I realized that I had a lot of unspoken feelings that did not allow me to breathe. So I think that it is time for me to get my ish together.

Ladies we must learn to engage those that we feel have not treated us fairly. Holding all those emotions inward only kills us slowly. Now I am not saying to go out and go postal on someone but as adults we need to make sure that our voices are heard when we feel that we are not being heard.

Please take an inventory of the ish going on around you and make sure that your kindness is not taken for weakness.


Much Love

Chanel

Real Life, Real Talk, Real Women

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